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Day 20- Someone you see yourself marrying/being with in the future
Honestly, I see myself spending the rest of my life alone. Not alone in the sense that I’ll have no friends, but alone in the sense that I don’t think I’ll have a wife. Think about it logically, why would I want to spend my life constricted to the needs/preferences of another person? Maybe I’m being cynical here but I want to be happy and free. Is this selfish? No, it’s not. There’s nothing selfish about wanting to be happy.
‘But you don’t know what love is like, Ian! You have to experience it to believe it…’ Sorry, but I just don’t think love is real. I think obsession is real. And I think lust is real. And I think that it’s when people feel these emotions together that they think they’re in love. This is a really extreme point of view, but it’s just the way I see it at this stage in my life. Yes, I’m only fifteen but I have a blog for opinions like this. Maybe it’s because I’ve never ‘been in love’ but I just don’t believe in this neeeeed to be with someone.
Have any of you ever been in love? Let me know what it’s like with the ‘reply’ button.
People who I see myself knowing for the rest of my life are my friends. I’d rather have friends and be able to do what I want with my life than have this ‘love’ thing with just one girl. No, there’s nothing appealing about that to me. Sure, I wanna have somebody to (to put it bluntly) have sex with or to be intimate with, but all humans want that. I suppose the kind of person I’m talking about is a friend with benefits or a fuck buddy or whatever you wanna call it…
Say what you will but, I don’t believe in ~love!
